Appointments in general are a thing, but doctor’s appointments can easily be the toughest to get through. I’m no stranger to the doctor, even before being thrown headfirst into the spoonie life, there’s been talking my friends to go to the doctor in college because swine flu was thing and so was quarantine. Talking my friend and co-worker to go to the doctor because she’s planning to go on a trip and that includes a plane with all the limited and communal air and a baby who’s young enough to have an immune system like mine naturally.
I get it, no one likes the doctor, or the dentist, or the optometrist nor does anyone like paying for it. But the alternative could be worse and you’ll spend a hella lot more guaranteed… so I’m put together a few of my best tips when dealing with those of the medical variety for your adulting accomplishments and with strep season upon us and flu season on the way, please take care of yourselves.
It’s easy to feel intimidated and sometimes powerless when you’re going to the doctor. It’s normal and it happens, but it doesn’t mean that you have to go through the motions. It’s important to take control of your health for whatever may come your way, spoonie or not. It’s easy to hear and say “be your own advocate”, but how do you do that? Well here’s what I do, so check it out and try what you like and if it works for you too, great and if not, well you have a starting point and can make it work for you. Afterwards, if you don’t mind, report back!
Part 1: Notes
Whether you use an app on your phone or a physical notebook to write on, do it because I can just about guarantee that you will not remember by the time you leave that office. Now I will say that doctors don’t generally like seeing phones out and may ask you to put them away. I prefer to write things down because you can develop your own shorthand without the threat of autocorrect.
Now let me break this down:
Date/Time/Doctor – standard information especially if you have multiple doctors or if you’re a caregiver to someone else. Do you have a hard time setting up the appointment? Well stay tuned because that's coming up soon because I know that for a lot of people, that's not easy.
Reason – is it a follow up? Do you have symptoms? Describe them. If it’s pain, does it throb or is it stabbing or just sharp? On a scale of 1-10, with 10 being the worst pain you’ve ever experienced, where are you currently or when it was at its worst? How many times have you felt it, whatever ‘it’ may be?
List of Medications – It’s important to know what you’re taking and how much you’re taking between Rx Prescriptions, over-the-counter medicines, and even vitamins or holistic practices. They all are chemical reactions happening in your gut and body, so it’s important for the doctor and the pharmacist to know so you don’t make yourself worse.
Vitals – every place does it so write them down, even the weight because unexplained weight gain or loss can be a symptom. Especially for us in the plus sized community, we know that a lot of attention gets directed at this number. So do yourself a favor and write it down because you know your habits and what has changed vs what hasn’t. Writing it down gives you evidence and backup to your case that there is a problem even if your clue is weight loss.
The rest is for your notes, what is the doctor’s plan? Is he giving you a prescription? What is it and what is the dosage? How long do you have to take it?
What is your diagnosis? If you don’t have one, what tests are being ordered and what is the procedure for that test or what is it supposed to show?
If you come up with questions after the appointment, write them down to either call the doctor back or to save for the next appointment.
So here’s part one. Take what you will and I hope it helps you get that annual physical or handle multiple visits for yourself or someone else. Stick around for the next tip because as much as we don’t want to do or would rather have mom do it, we need it.
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Thursday, October 24, 2019
Medical Guide Part 1
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Saturday, August 11, 2018
Monthly Mess of Goals
Talk about a month just flying by. So if you hadn’t read
about June, check that out here and it’ll fill you in on how I decided to go
with this type of posting. Even I had to check it back out to see what I had
and see how I did.
For my June goals, the plan was (in short):
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Read 2 book
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Meal plan 2 weeks
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Clean out winter clothes
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Change my sheets every week
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Get my laundry under control
Seems reasonable and doable, so looking back at my progress…
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Read 1 ½ books, left a book I was reading at
home when I had to go visit the parentals and this one wasn’t on my kindle. (go
Figure)
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I successfully planned out 1 week at a time and
it was only lunches – to the peeps who can do all your meals for weeks on end,
you are the real MVP because it’s hard, it’s tedious, and I don’t even like
telling myself what to do and even less what to eat.
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Full Success! – Gold star for me. It’s been well
into the 90-100s weather wise in the good ol’ New Mexico area, literally going
through a cold front right now and it brough the expected high down from 106
to mid 90s.No risk of needing winter
clothes. At. All
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I can say that I, honestly, had this about 50%
of the time. It’s still been really hectic and I feel that my house is still
fairly imploded but we’re working on it.
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Laundry is better controlled. It was just dirty
laundry that was everywhere. And Now it’s clean laundry. Most of it is folded
and just needing to be evaluated and put away. That part feels pretty good.
Now for July, I did have to make some adjustments. Got a new position
and my morning commute to work has gone from 2-3 minutes (less than a mile) to
30 minutes (about 17-20 miles). Organization and time management are going to
be key in this transition, I’m a little late getting this going as well so here
it goes.
July
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Read 2 books – and no my half one doesn’t count
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Plan out my lunches and snacks weekly
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Changing sheets every week
Coming out of July, we're making progress. 1 3/4 books not counting my half one but I'm almost done with it. Lunch and snacks are getting easier than dinner for sure. And fresh sheets are on point.
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2 BOOKS IS HAPPENING
PLANNING LUNCHES, SNACKS, AND DINNER WEEKLY - HAPPENING
CHANGING SHEETS EVERY WEEK - MAKE THAT HABIT HAPPEN
MAKE IT TO THE GYM 3X A WEEK - MAKE IT A HABIT
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Tuesday, June 12, 2018
June Living Goals
Over time I’ve read many a blog and one thing that didn’t
make sense to me was posting about their goals. Mostly blog progress goals and
while it’s great to have aspirations, for me they didn’t quite work because I’m
not a full time blogger and I’m still working on consistency (it's going slower than molasses on Christmas Eve but it's going). So if anything,
that’d be my goal in general. But then I came across It Starts With Coffee. It's run by Neely and she had
goals that she wanted to do personally to get her through the month and that just
clicked with me on so many levels, it wasn't even funny. So Neely if you only read up to this point, keep going girl. I will definitely be reading.
I've started a journey with my health to do better and be
better. And now that I’m making progress, I don’t want to lose sight of what I’m
working towards. But I’m also afraid of constantly living in survival mode and
not actually living life. So to start a few things off with inspiration from Neely, I present my monthly Living
Goals.
1. Read 2 books – I read 2 books the month before last by accident so I wanna see if I can do it intentionally. I’m a bit of a slower reader because either I’m only reading and
nothing exists or I’m barely able to get a few pages in. There's no in between....and there should be....unless I'm reading Game of Thrones. (It's just so slow and I've been stuck on book 2 for at least a year) I also need some time away from screens.
2. Make a meal plan for at least two weeks – food
that is good for you will always go bad faster and it pisses me off as well as
my bank account to waste food and money. And honestly, I've been wasting food and money so I need to do this now because I literally have the baaaaaaaaaaaaaare minimum in my fridge. No bueno
3. Clear out winter clothes – The weather forecast is showing the highs in the upper 90-100s out here in New Mexico. However comma, sometimes the mornings are still a tad
chilly and the never ending wind can get cold too. But it's safe to say that the heavy coats and sweaters gotta go and space is needed for alllll the dresses.
4. Change sheets every week – I'll admit it....I got lazy and now
I’m breaking out. Besides who doesn’t love the feeling of fresh sheets? It's leg shaving season and the fresh sheets-fresh shaven leg feeling is so happening and it's going to be glorious!
And we'll start here for the month and see where we go. What progress do you want to have in your life this month?
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Thursday, March 22, 2018
6 Tips When Your An Incubus of Viral Plague
First off, major kudos to you if you caught the reference in the title. But in case you haven't heard or experienced there's two strains of the flu going around among other annoying infections of the sort. As I'm writing, I've called into work because my compromised immune system is now battling an actual disease. Thankfully, don't think it's the flu, but I won't go into the gross details but I figured, since we're here. Let's make it not gloomy and depressing as possible.
I know this is easier said than done.
So here's some nice pick me ups that have worked for me and that I even need to work on to get through this round of viral plague.
1. Soup - first and foremost you need something in your system to help it along and if you can't keep it down at least it's there to keep you from dry heaving. I don't care what anyone says, dry heaving when you have nothing to vomit is the worst bodily experience. So if you don't have a recipe or roommates or someone to make you any, always keep a few in the pantry.
2. Water - room temp is the best - I'll admit that I'm bad at this normally but I'm trying to pick it up today while I'm constantly losing moisture. Don't go ham because it's heavy and it'll definitely revolt but keep sipping.
3. Tea - now if you've read back a ways to my remedies - there's no tea shortage at my house. Chamomile is my go-to but I'm currently babying a lemon ginger tea. It's definitely different but it's hopefully doing it's thing.
4. Feel good movies - When I'm sick, I tend to abandon my strong independent senses and become a whiny mess. I hate sitting in miserable silence so on goes the movies. Personal favorites: The Holiday, Phat Girlz, and Disney movies of course...right now of course it the live action Beauty and the Beast on the Netflix. Because who doesn't need the Beast singing in their life? I can't tell you how many times I've listened to Evermore. (also if you need a good cry during said movies, just let it out)
5. Rest - I'm terrible about napping but it's really not good to be stuck on the phone all day or in this case on the computer and it's definitely something to work on because let me tell you I. AM. DRAINED.
6. Pj's - Being sick is already uncomfortable and you aren't going anywhere. So whether it's your old college sweats and a t-shirt or some actual pj's do what feels right and add some fuzzy socks to the feet that you've already lathered some Vicks on.
What I forget, still, is to listen to my body and I'm sure others do the same. I've already felt guilty this past weekend because I didn't do much of anything. But my body has. So in the name of the better you this year (yes I'm also kinda saying this to myself), let your body heal! I've already made a deal so that if my symptoms don't get better I'll call the Dr asap. ***update - I went to the doctor and definitely not the flu, bad stomach bug***
How are you feeling? What do you do when you're sick?
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I know this is easier said than done.
So here's some nice pick me ups that have worked for me and that I even need to work on to get through this round of viral plague.
1. Soup - first and foremost you need something in your system to help it along and if you can't keep it down at least it's there to keep you from dry heaving. I don't care what anyone says, dry heaving when you have nothing to vomit is the worst bodily experience. So if you don't have a recipe or roommates or someone to make you any, always keep a few in the pantry.
2. Water - room temp is the best - I'll admit that I'm bad at this normally but I'm trying to pick it up today while I'm constantly losing moisture. Don't go ham because it's heavy and it'll definitely revolt but keep sipping.
3. Tea - now if you've read back a ways to my remedies - there's no tea shortage at my house. Chamomile is my go-to but I'm currently babying a lemon ginger tea. It's definitely different but it's hopefully doing it's thing.
4. Feel good movies - When I'm sick, I tend to abandon my strong independent senses and become a whiny mess. I hate sitting in miserable silence so on goes the movies. Personal favorites: The Holiday, Phat Girlz, and Disney movies of course...right now of course it the live action Beauty and the Beast on the Netflix. Because who doesn't need the Beast singing in their life? I can't tell you how many times I've listened to Evermore. (also if you need a good cry during said movies, just let it out)
5. Rest - I'm terrible about napping but it's really not good to be stuck on the phone all day or in this case on the computer and it's definitely something to work on because let me tell you I. AM. DRAINED.
6. Pj's - Being sick is already uncomfortable and you aren't going anywhere. So whether it's your old college sweats and a t-shirt or some actual pj's do what feels right and add some fuzzy socks to the feet that you've already lathered some Vicks on.
What I forget, still, is to listen to my body and I'm sure others do the same. I've already felt guilty this past weekend because I didn't do much of anything. But my body has. So in the name of the better you this year (yes I'm also kinda saying this to myself), let your body heal! I've already made a deal so that if my symptoms don't get better I'll call the Dr asap. ***update - I went to the doctor and definitely not the flu, bad stomach bug***
How are you feeling? What do you do when you're sick?
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Wednesday, December 27, 2017
Winter/ Christmas Tag - You're it!
Hello and Happy after-Christmas day everyone. I hope that everyone had a good holiday. Emily and all her wonderfulness at The Weird Girl Life had tagged me in a tag for fall but obviously that one hasn’t showed up and I will have to save it for some time. That got me to thinking that I had a saved post from last year and BEHOLD!!!! I did and I still have some time to send this out to the world. Now past me didn’t think to save the blogger who did this tag or else I’d have it all kinds of plastered so if you’ve done this tag and think you may have done it, comment me and let me know!! (And then when fall comes around as it always does then I’ll have a different one then.)
1.
What is your favorite Christmas/ Holiday film?
It has to be National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation. Always watched it with my dad and it’s hilarious!
It has to be National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation. Always watched it with my dad and it’s hilarious!
2.
Where do you usually spend the holidays?
Usually with my familia
Usually with my familia
3.
What’s your favorite Christmas song?
I’m a bit of a nerd so I’d have to go with Star in the East. It’s a song we did in choir and you can seriously look up any high school or college all state choir and find it. It’s different but I love it.
I’m a bit of a nerd so I’d have to go with Star in the East. It’s a song we did in choir and you can seriously look up any high school or college all state choir and find it. It’s different but I love it.
4.
Do you open any presents on Christmas Eve?
Lol I used to. My dad’s side of the family usually celebrated the ‘noche buena’ so we’d all go over to my grandma’s house and pretty much have a party. Young and adult were up all night. Now that we’re older we have more of the party than present opening
Lol I used to. My dad’s side of the family usually celebrated the ‘noche buena’ so we’d all go over to my grandma’s house and pretty much have a party. Young and adult were up all night. Now that we’re older we have more of the party than present opening
5.
Is your Christmas tree real or fake?
Fake – my house is kinda small and so far I can only keep a cactus alive so full out tree is probably not a good idea
Fake – my house is kinda small and so far I can only keep a cactus alive so full out tree is probably not a good idea
6.
Favorite winter scent?
It was Twilight Woods from Bath and Body Works FOR YEARS!!!! Up until they discontinued the scent so now…Marshmellow Fireside – still from Bath and Body Works
It was Twilight Woods from Bath and Body Works FOR YEARS!!!! Up until they discontinued the scent so now…Marshmellow Fireside – still from Bath and Body Works
7.
Scarves or Beanies?
Scarves. I still love wearing beanies but I can’t wear those to work
Scarves. I still love wearing beanies but I can’t wear those to work
8.
Favorite Holiday drink?
Hot chocolate duh
Hot chocolate duh
9.
Favorite Winter/Holiday essentials?
lip balm, scarves, and boots
lip balm, scarves, and boots
10.
Favorite winter activity?
Movies and blankets – would like to say Netflix and Chill but soooooome people get the wrong idea…
Movies and blankets – would like to say Netflix and Chill but soooooome people get the wrong idea…
11.
Do you use advent calendars?
I did this year and it was fantastic!!! My boyfriend gave me my gift early so that I could enjoy my NYX lippie countdown. So worth it.
I did this year and it was fantastic!!! My boyfriend gave me my gift early so that I could enjoy my NYX lippie countdown. So worth it.
12.
Candy cane or gingerbread men?
Gingerbread man. Not the biggest fan of candy canes unless it’s a fruit flavored one
Gingerbread man. Not the biggest fan of candy canes unless it’s a fruit flavored one
13.
Without cheating, can you name all of Santa’s
reindeer?
Dasher, Dancer, Prancer, Vixen, Comet Cupid, Donner, Blitzen, Rudolph
Dasher, Dancer, Prancer, Vixen, Comet Cupid, Donner, Blitzen, Rudolph
14.
What made you realize the truth about Santa?
I realized he was real because I have the friggin Christmas spirit yo! Don’t even try to fight me on this.
I realized he was real because I have the friggin Christmas spirit yo! Don’t even try to fight me on this.
15.
Hot Cocoa or Apple Cider?
I don’t mind apple cider and I think it’s really good when someone else makes it. I’ve tried and it doesn’t work so Hot Cocoa for me
I don’t mind apple cider and I think it’s really good when someone else makes it. I’ve tried and it doesn’t work so Hot Cocoa for me
So here's the whole enchilada as far as the questions are concerned. There's still time for the the spirit towards the end of the year so go for it and let me know that you did it so I can read your answers too!!! Or you can do what I did and save it for later ;)
1.
What is your favorite Christmas/ Holiday film?
2.
Where do you usually spend the holidays?
3.
What’s your favorite Christmas song?
4.
Do you open any presents on Christmas Eve?
5.
Is your Christmas tree real or fake?
6.
Favorite winter scent?
7.
Scarves or Beanies?
8.
Favorite Holiday drink?
9.
Favorite Winter/Holiday essentials?
10.
Favorite winter activity?
11.
Do you use advent calendars?
12.
Candy cane or gingerbread men?
13.
Without cheating, can you name all of Santa’s
reindeer?
14.
What made you realize the truth about Santa?
15.
Hot Cocoa or Apple Cider?
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Monday, September 4, 2017
Bra Talk
There are days...... and then there are days where circumstances
dictate what has to happen for that day. As a plus sized woman, there are
certain standards that society will always be violated and for those that are
offended, sorry your life sucks. It took me a long time to be comfortable with
myself and every now and then, sometimes I gotta smack myself and remind myself
that I’m fabulous. I had one of those moments this morning.
Aside from being B3 (Big, Bad, and Beautiful), I have always
enjoyed the size of my chest, my bust, my rack of power if you will. I was a B
cup in 6th grade and have only leveled up from there. But like any
great power comes greater responsibility and I take it very seriously in the
bra department. These girls need the support to be properly and tastefully on
display and for that, I don’t mind spending a decent amount of money on quality
bras from Lane Bryant. Nothing against Victoria’s Secret, but they don’t carry
my size in store and if I’m going to spend an arm and a possible leg on bras, I
want to be able to try them on before I buy them so thank you Lane Bryant for
taking my money willingly in exchange for great bras that don’t stop working and are pretty too.
Since learning about and dealing with my new disease, I’ve
been trying to keep an open mind and a closed wallet, however, my biggest
complaint about losing weight is that my bras don’t fit right. I prefer padded and underwired and anyone who wears this combo knows that if it
doesn’t fit, you will most likely be in pain. And I have been because with all
the changes happening to my body and lifestyle, I can’t afford to replace them
and then find out that I’d need to change them again. So I went to the only
store I would and could go to and made a choice to try a bandeau bra slash
bralette.
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I’ve seen them everywhere on the interwebs and they are all the rage,
but I’ve always been under the impression that they weren’t for me because I’ve
normally seen them on smaller women with smaller busts. Finding these in my
size at maurices was a surprise and a sign to bite the bullet and not knock it
til I try it, especially considering these cost, literally, a third of what I
would pay for a regular bra.
With the inflammation in my joints, there are some days
where I can’t put on a bra because my hands can’t and won’t grip it. So here I
am trying these little barely padded, no wire, basically tube tops and half of
me is wanting to smack myself for going out in public for fear of rejection and
ridicule. The other half was the half I listened to because I was able to
mentally smack myself harder with the fact that if it feels good and it looks
good, then it could be a beautiful relationship.
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And guess what? As I'm writing this.... this is my first day not just wearing it in public, but at work in a professional atmosphere and so far it feels wonderful. I’m comfortable and the girls aren’t going wild without wires. My mind is going, if it feels great now, what about in other outfits for regular wear like sleeveless, razorbacks, scoop necks, off the shoulder, spaghetti straps, etc????? The possibilities are endless so take it from me, take a chance and try it, whatever ‘it’ may be.
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Tuesday, July 18, 2017
I've Got That Summertime June Favorites
Well interweb peeps, June is over. Half of the year is
already gone and I’ve got some serious whiplash. My bff and I were talking
about what we’ve done in the last six months. I won’t get you with the details
of the entire past, we are here to see favorites. And for June, there’s a few. Literally because these had been rocking my month. They may be few, but they be awesome.
Kind is the New Pretty – Tarte – If you read my last
month’s favorites, which you should here, then you’ll know that I bought this
little set on sale during the Ulta megasale of awesomeness. Of course, with my
lowered immune system, I was getting sick and wasn’t one for wearing makeup.
But now that I’m semi-sane, I’m so glad I bought this mini pallet. It’s easy to
get to and has everything great shades that I can literally wear everyday. I’ve
made a few trips back home and have had to make super early trips to the doctor
so this little pallet plus a couple brushes and some mascara and I’m set.
I had to get rid of a lot of makeup after my stent of being an incubus of plague so between lack of money and the amount of makeup I tend to wear on a normal basis, I've really wanted more of an all-in-one situation and this little pallet has it.
I had to get rid of a lot of makeup after my stent of being an incubus of plague so between lack of money and the amount of makeup I tend to wear on a normal basis, I've really wanted more of an all-in-one situation and this little pallet has it.
I will admit that I didn't expect it to be this small. It fits in the palm of my hand. The bronzer works really well for my skin tone as it's not too warm. The blush is a bit more on the orange side but I strangely like it. It's buildable for me because I can imagine overdoing it, especially at home where my lighting is terrible thanks to wood panelling, so it's always a bit darker in my house than I like. Now the highlight....It is pretty fabulous. Granted when I put too much so that I look like a unicorn licked my face, it can be a bit much because it's white. The picture doesn't do the sparkle justice and in the words of YouTuber Nicole Guerriero, "Sir, can you see this highlight?" It definitely packs a punch but somedays I wanna be chill and not punch people with my highlight.
Sally Hansen Instadry Nail Color – Petal Pusher – I
hadn’t painted my nails in a hot minute. I haven’t had my nails done in an even
hotter minute. Despite everything going on with me, my nails to tend to grow
pretty fast so acrylics and gel can get pretty expensive. So instead of a super
bold color I grabbed this for a little color and I am loving it. It’s subtle
enough to not clash with everything and it doesn’t take forever and a day to
dry.
I'm not kidding when I say it's a literal quick drying nail polish. If I have a solid seven minutes, the brush is wide enough to cover most of my nails in one swipe and opaque enough to not be entirely streaky. I can still do two coats, have them dry and pop a quick top coat and dry in roughly that time. So don't be too heavy on the hand and it'll all be well with the world.
Zuchini boats – Pinterest recipe – one of my best
girlfriends and I have been working on newer and healthier recipes and once a
week we make them and have a chance to catch up on life. Since we both were
raised in a way that didn’t always include a lot of veggies like zucchini and
squash, I’ve strayed away from them mainly out of ignorance. NOT the case
anymore. This recipe she found on Pinterest from thewholesomedish.com called for ground chicken but we
used ground turkey and lemme tell you, I’ve made it again and it’s pretty
fricken awesome and surprisingly filling. So go check out my Food board onPinterest and test it out yourself.
So yes June be few but I can honestly say these have been consistently happening all month which is not always the case for lots of people, I've noticed. But even though the month is halfway gone, here's what I've been up to, what have you been up too or been loving lately?
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Monday, June 5, 2017
The Modern Window Shopping - Le Wishlist
So here's my happy place lately.
Torrid tends to get me in trouble. I love that they have my size and freaking awesome clothes that I could normally only afford when on a great flash sale or on clearance. My sister and I have developed this thing with pineapples and low and behold Torrid has a bright AF pineapple dress that needs to be in my life but sadly not at $54. So instead I will stalk it and wait for the moment I can afford it and snag it before my size disappears.
If you haven't read much from me, you'll find out quickly that I'm a fan of Amazon and Amazon Prime. I've had great luck with my back when my health was at it's worst, you can read about my lifesaver of a backpack. But it got me thinking about my purse situation. I still enjoy having my tank of a purse. I mean hell, I've started a series on the tank because doing a simple little "what's in my bag?" But these two have my eye and I can't decide which to save for first. They aren't expensive but for right now, they must be on the wish list
This one is actually just going to happen sooner than the ones before. I've been spending a lot of time in my living room and on my phone still. Don't get me wrong, I love my Galaxy S7, but I've shot the battery and have to charge it a bit more often than I like. But on the go, I still carry my external battery and what not but I shouldn't need to use one at home. So this little gem is roughly $10 on the Amazon so to keep me from running back and forth from my room and missing messages, notifications and calls from the familia, I'll avoid a few impulses to be comfortable.
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Tuesday, May 23, 2017
5 Necessary Cozy Office Decorations
I’m a firm believer that you have to be comfortable in your
own space. More often than not, I’m at work more than I am at home so excuse my
language when I say Hell Yes, I want to be comfy in my office bubble. And being
on the mend has changed a lot of my perspective because I’m at the point where
I don’t want to take care of allllllll my clutter. So in looking around my
office, I believe it’s time to redecorate.
I’ve had my customers come in and say it feels cozy and yes,
that helps too. Your surroundings affect how you feel and how others feel
around you in that space. I’m no neat freak by far, like seriously from Death Valley to the moon far, but it’s time for a change. Besides Spring and Summer
are here and it’s time to put away the dark table coverings and replace the
dark folders and dark decorations and clear off a bit more space to feel fresh and hopefully keep
the cozy feeling.
Himalayan salt stone lamp - No matter what beliefs you have,
this thing is amazing. They come in sizes small to OMG huge, but the benefits
are awesome. Electronics put out positive ions that can mess with your body’s
stuff and cause harm like headaches if you have a desk job that has you staring
at a computer screen all day. This lamp gives off negative ions to cancel them
out and I haven’t had a headache since. Who’s saving money on ibuprofen and
Tylenol? Also it’s a cute conversation starter because trust me, everyone
notices it and every kid will want to know what it is.
Shiny Canister - I’m a huge fan of shiny and glitter
anything. I tend to lean into walking around like a disco ball but I understand
for some people it can be too much. So walking around Hobby Lobby, I found this
canister on clearance and while it looks deep, it’s not but it does have room
to hold some candy or keys or in my case a stash of Colgate wisps for after
lunch.
Scentsy or wax warmer – avoiding open flame in the workplace
is pretty standard and with the variety of people I see and sometimes smell on
a daily basis, having the room smell nice is essential. Living in the Southwest,
agriculture is a big part of our industry but I don’t necessarily need my office
to smell like cows. Just sayin.
Statement Piece (My cross) - Now most of my things are kinda
general but I like to pull my personality in and that can be with a statement
piece. This was a gift from my mom for my birthday a few years back. A friend
of hers had made one for my mom for Christmas and it was gorgeous but could I
bring it back with me? NOOO. Then this beauty came in and I was more than ok
with it. My favorite colors plus glitter and you have me wrapped up with a
fleur di lis. Who could ask for more?
Hand Sanitizer/Lotion – I’m a sucker for office supplies so
when I found this little organizer on clearance at Hobby Lobby, I was
determined to use it. Stick on a few scrapbook gems and a monogram and I have a
space for my much needed hand sanitizer and lotion. Bath and Body Works is a
good friend to have and having a wonderful friend who works there to let you
know when the good sales are happening is even better and slightly dangerous.
But anyone who works with the public knows that it’s a must and I don’t mind
sharing it with my clients either. They feel great and smell great and with how sick I am, it makes me feel better.
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Sunday, April 2, 2017
Tales of the Tank - My Backpack
Ok so these backpack purses I've been seeing had really made me want one. If you've read the other Tales in this series, you'd know that I basically carry a tank for a purse. Looking at all these teeny tiny backpacks while adorable as all get out, just can't work for me. Instead, I've found this one and it's a life saver. With that's been going on with my health, having a regular purse constantly falling on one hand while using my walker or cane was just not working.
I wanted one that wasn't a huge academic tank but I needed some space for the things I have to carry, like stuff for dr's appointments, so the cute teeny bags are a no go. After Christmas, against some better judgement, I clicked into the depths of Amazon and found this simple little gem.
No regrets at all.
I had to check the measurements to make sure it wasn't too small because I've been using a regular spiral to keep my notes and appointments together as well as my planner so as long as it doesn't fold, we Gucci. It's not very wide which is ok because it forces me to not carry too much. Yes, it'll be on my back but I still have to haul it on my shoulders, which on some mornings is a big friggin' deal.
I didn't want black just because I'm trying really, really, REALLY hard to push out some negative thoughts, and this charcoal gray is just gorgeous and the fabric is stiffer than typical canvas so it's been holding it's shape fairly well and the two front pockets as just big enough for some easy access.
What do I got in bag tho?
It's got an inside pocket for 14 inch laptop so I've been using that for my Dr. Spiral, my planner and a general notebook for little things. My doctor is a couple hundred miles away so I also have my Nintendo 3DS XL for some gaming if I'm not driving. Chargers are a must as well as my trusty external batteries. Thanks to Ulta for this little pill organizer for my afternoon meds and last but not least my wallet.
This is nothing compared to what I would normally carry. Like seriously. But desperate times call for desperate measures but it can still be cute, practical, and save what ever strength I have.
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I wanted one that wasn't a huge academic tank but I needed some space for the things I have to carry, like stuff for dr's appointments, so the cute teeny bags are a no go. After Christmas, against some better judgement, I clicked into the depths of Amazon and found this simple little gem.
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No regrets at all.
I had to check the measurements to make sure it wasn't too small because I've been using a regular spiral to keep my notes and appointments together as well as my planner so as long as it doesn't fold, we Gucci. It's not very wide which is ok because it forces me to not carry too much. Yes, it'll be on my back but I still have to haul it on my shoulders, which on some mornings is a big friggin' deal.
I didn't want black just because I'm trying really, really, REALLY hard to push out some negative thoughts, and this charcoal gray is just gorgeous and the fabric is stiffer than typical canvas so it's been holding it's shape fairly well and the two front pockets as just big enough for some easy access.
What do I got in bag tho?
It's got an inside pocket for 14 inch laptop so I've been using that for my Dr. Spiral, my planner and a general notebook for little things. My doctor is a couple hundred miles away so I also have my Nintendo 3DS XL for some gaming if I'm not driving. Chargers are a must as well as my trusty external batteries. Thanks to Ulta for this little pill organizer for my afternoon meds and last but not least my wallet.
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Sunday, March 26, 2017
Coffee or Tea
I'm not having issues but I'm having issues. With me progressively on the previously mentioned mend, there's a lot of adjustments to be made and more so with my stomach. Living out west, I've grown up and enjoy chile and just spicy food in general. Those are easy to say that I need to calm down on the hot sauce and salsa, but when I was having my morning coffee after coming home from the hospital, it was tragic. My stomach was not liking it for some reason but it yelled and hurt until I was in the bathroom.
Now I'm not a complete coffee snob. I have a Keurig and a french press, but I've been at home where it's a standard coffee pot with Dunkin Donuts coffee or Folgers or 8 O'clock Coffee from the local Dollar General and all is still well with the world. And no, I don't drink it black because I enjoy flavored creamer and DUH. I love the smell and enjoy the taste in the mornings.
It's been a staple in my life for a while I believe, mainly, because of my grandparents. My grandpa started me on coffee at a young age with cookies. He's used the same cups for coffee for as long as I can remember and starts a pot anytime we walk through the door. Not too strong and not too light with a few cubes of sugar with creamer and we are set for a good couple hours of chatting.
Tea is a whole different story because there are two categories, hot tea and iced tea. Iced tea is not iced tea with out a proper southern amount of sugar.I didn't get into drinking hot tea casually until college with the help of a few of my friends. We dubbed ourselves las seƱoras. (hey!) And we'd have tea at someone's house, the theatre, Chinese restaurant, etc. But of course after college, people grow and move and I'm glad we still keep in touch. (We needs the chisme every now and then and don't get us started on the Selena movie and award season.)
I love Chamomile or like I've mentioned in my remedies post, Manzanilla. It's a great relaxer for me so I can't really drink it in the morning to wake up and get the warm fuzzies. I've tried a couple teas, Earl Grey was a bit much at least by itself and I found Breakfast Tea was not my cup of tea.
I know people put honey or cream or milk but I don't know what goes where. Where does the line draw? For strong coffee, I know to use the powdered creamer instead of liquid. Don't use a flavored creamer when you have already flavored coffee.
WHERE ARE THE RULES FOR TEA?!?!?!?!
There's so many varieties and they have different things and some don't have caffeine, and yes I need caffeine. There's a thing called loose leaf tea. Is it better than tea that's bagged? How much do you use? How long does it need to steep? What are the requirements to add honey, milk, or creamer? Is that even a thing?
With all of this said, the hunt is on for my cup of tea because it's terrifying to think that the coffee deprivation may be permanent, but my mornings are empty and void of the wonderful, slightly bitter, taste of one of the miracles of life that made my morning routine. Trust me, I need a routine. So any tips or teas to try or tea recipes are greatly appreciated in the mean time. :]
Now I'm not a complete coffee snob. I have a Keurig and a french press, but I've been at home where it's a standard coffee pot with Dunkin Donuts coffee or Folgers or 8 O'clock Coffee from the local Dollar General and all is still well with the world. And no, I don't drink it black because I enjoy flavored creamer and DUH. I love the smell and enjoy the taste in the mornings.
It's been a staple in my life for a while I believe, mainly, because of my grandparents. My grandpa started me on coffee at a young age with cookies. He's used the same cups for coffee for as long as I can remember and starts a pot anytime we walk through the door. Not too strong and not too light with a few cubes of sugar with creamer and we are set for a good couple hours of chatting.
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I love Chamomile or like I've mentioned in my remedies post, Manzanilla. It's a great relaxer for me so I can't really drink it in the morning to wake up and get the warm fuzzies. I've tried a couple teas, Earl Grey was a bit much at least by itself and I found Breakfast Tea was not my cup of tea.
I know people put honey or cream or milk but I don't know what goes where. Where does the line draw? For strong coffee, I know to use the powdered creamer instead of liquid. Don't use a flavored creamer when you have already flavored coffee.
WHERE ARE THE RULES FOR TEA?!?!?!?!
There's so many varieties and they have different things and some don't have caffeine, and yes I need caffeine. There's a thing called loose leaf tea. Is it better than tea that's bagged? How much do you use? How long does it need to steep? What are the requirements to add honey, milk, or creamer? Is that even a thing?
With all of this said, the hunt is on for my cup of tea because it's terrifying to think that the coffee deprivation may be permanent, but my mornings are empty and void of the wonderful, slightly bitter, taste of one of the miracles of life that made my morning routine. Trust me, I need a routine. So any tips or teas to try or tea recipes are greatly appreciated in the mean time. :]
Monday, March 20, 2017
Life Said I'm Sick
Ok, I can't say that I've been just spastic with posting or even my social media presence and I've gone back and forth on whether to go into this topic. When it comes to my health, I tend to be a lot more reserved and it tends to make me a bit of a hermit. But with a bit of debating, here I am putting myself out there on the interwebs where nothing is ever really deleted.
Now that my dramatic moment has passed, here's the sitch. My last couple posts were vague about what is going with my health. There's been a lot of pain, a lot of medications, and a two week stay in the hospital to get some answers about what has been going on. My diagnosises: lupus and blood clots. Neither of these run in my family on either side, and definitely can't be cured with my typical remedies, so this was a big surprise but after looking for answers for a couple months with no real path, getting this information was a huge relief.
I've still been out of work because I've lost so much strength and the side effects of my meds aren't exactly a walk in the park either. I've got a couple specialists that I'm working with to get me back to as normal as possible but it's a hard pill to swallow (pun intended) knowing that my previous normal will never happen again. I know lupus is more manageable now than it used to be, but it's still a lot that needs to be watched and researched. The blood clots just suck. Thankfully they haven't moved to my lungs or heart, but from what I was told, my legs are "covered" in clots which doesn't help my swelling or pain and was more than likely caused from my birth control that I was taking for my PCOS (polycystic ovarian syndrome) for the last ten years.
To say that my life is changing is understatement. The great thing, and I'm super proud of myself to see this, is that I have an actual diagnosis and something to research. I'm that person that has to know what I'm into and it turns out that I know people who know people who have experience especially since I can't turn to family. And maybe through writing and adding this to my blog life, I can help someone else who is just finding out as well and is starting the journey too. So if anyone has any ideas, or tips, or resources in handling and managing lupus, please please please let me know.
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Now that my dramatic moment has passed, here's the sitch. My last couple posts were vague about what is going with my health. There's been a lot of pain, a lot of medications, and a two week stay in the hospital to get some answers about what has been going on. My diagnosises: lupus and blood clots. Neither of these run in my family on either side, and definitely can't be cured with my typical remedies, so this was a big surprise but after looking for answers for a couple months with no real path, getting this information was a huge relief.
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| Sadly these aren't all of my meds |
I've still been out of work because I've lost so much strength and the side effects of my meds aren't exactly a walk in the park either. I've got a couple specialists that I'm working with to get me back to as normal as possible but it's a hard pill to swallow (pun intended) knowing that my previous normal will never happen again. I know lupus is more manageable now than it used to be, but it's still a lot that needs to be watched and researched. The blood clots just suck. Thankfully they haven't moved to my lungs or heart, but from what I was told, my legs are "covered" in clots which doesn't help my swelling or pain and was more than likely caused from my birth control that I was taking for my PCOS (polycystic ovarian syndrome) for the last ten years.
To say that my life is changing is understatement. The great thing, and I'm super proud of myself to see this, is that I have an actual diagnosis and something to research. I'm that person that has to know what I'm into and it turns out that I know people who know people who have experience especially since I can't turn to family. And maybe through writing and adding this to my blog life, I can help someone else who is just finding out as well and is starting the journey too. So if anyone has any ideas, or tips, or resources in handling and managing lupus, please please please let me know.
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Friday, January 20, 2017
This or That? Tag You're It!
#Lifestyle | This or That?
Now in my defense, I don't remember who I saw this tag from. I saw it a while back and loved it! Now that the new year has taken off and there's a lot of controversial stuff going on, I figure everyone needs a break for a little fun.
Bath
Perfume or Body Splash?
**Body spray? Normally, I don't have many perfumes and I save those for special occasions
Lotion or body butter?
**lotion
Body wash or soap?
**body wash
Lush or other bath company?
**I've never tried Lush, I want to but haven't so I stick with Bath and Body Works. They take good care of me
Fashion
Jeans or sweat pants?
**Jeans for sho. A good pair of jeans is like a great pair of shoes and you can do anything
Long sleeve or short?
**Short sleeve. Most long sleeves tend to fit me like a 3/4 sleeve. Long sleeves are like unicorns
Dresses or skirts?
**Dresses. Even when I do wear skirts, they tend to wear like dresses
Stripes or plaid?
**Stripes. Plaid depends on my mood
Flip flops or sandals?
**I like flip flops for everyday but going out, sandals.
Scarves or hats?
**Hi I'm Jazz and I have a scarf addiction. I've made progress but they have my <3. I like hats but I'm convinced that my head is shaped weird and then there's the hat hair dilemma.
Studs or dangly earrings?
**I have a double piercing so BOTH
Necklaces or bracelets?
**Necklaces, even with the troubles that I had before and after my surgery, necklaces all day
Heels or flats?
**Flats...I'm 5 ft 10 in., so society doesn't want me to wear heels but I gotta couple that I'll bring out every now and then, but especially at work, noooooooo.
Cowboy boots or riding boots?
**Riding boots! It took me so long to find good riding boots. Where I come from, if you're wearing cowboy boots, they are more work related than fashion related.
Jacket or hoodie?
**Hoodie - Every single time.
Forever21 or Charlotte Russe?
**Forever 21+, I hear that Charlotte Russe has a plus size line, but I've never been to a store.
Abercombie or Hollister?
**BAHAHAHAHAHAHA, I'm plus sized, I vote American Eagle men's section for me.
Saks 5th or Nordstrom?
**Haven't been to either. Heard of them, but never encountered them
Nails
OPI or ChinaGlaze?
**I've had more OPI than anything so OPI?
Natural or Acrylic?
**Natural. Acrylic makes me feel guilty and while I enjoy gel/shelak my nails grow too fast and then my bank account cries.
Flower or no flower?
**I gotta be in the mood for floral in general but I'll rock one every now and then.
Hair
Curly or Straight?
**Mine is super straight. I prefer a wave
Bun or Ponytail?
**Bun, On top of my head, low on the side. I need my hair out of my way but I've been loving the undercut I had going on until I cut my hair a bit too short. Good thing it grows.
Bobby Pins or Butterfly Clips?
**Bobby Pins. Butterfly clips are loooong gone.
Hairspray or Gel?
**Hairspray. No solid gel, no spray gel. Just nah.
Long or Short?
**Medium. Long hair to me was when I was in high school and my hair was about four-ish feet long. Shoulder lenth or middle of the back is not considered long to me.
Light or Dark?
**Dark. I've had some highlights for a bit, debated an ombre but I think I'm good for now.
Side sweep or full bangs?
**side sweep but it has been many a moon since I've had bangs
Up or down?
**because of how short it is now it's pretty much always down. I'm ok with it for now.
Random
Rain or shine?
** Rain - I live in the desert, when it rains, I love life more.
Summer or winter?
**Winter. It's easier to layer up but in the summer you can only take so much off.
Fall or spring?
**Fall. If I had to choose between the four, it'd be fall. Yea the wind may get in the way. But that's when the rains come and I don't have to worry about ice yet.
Chocolate or vanilla?
**Hersheys Cookies and Cream but if we are talking about ice cream, vanilla.
East coast or west coast?
**As much as I love the East Coast, I have to go West. lol Sorry Biggie
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